agak-agak mak/bapak marah tak ? :))

salam Ramadhan ^_^

Alhamdulillah, isnin ni [1/8/2011] dah start puasa dah, insyaAllah. hopefully selagi boleh puasa, kte puasa okayy! hehehee. pg pg buta ni teringat satu benda myfriend tanya haritu, tp masa tu mcm tgh lepak2 je, dia pun gelak2 je tanya. so tak jawab laa, gelak je dengar. ni terfikir balik, rasa nk tulis. ehehee. well, soalan dia lebih kurang macam nie :
"mcm mana awak decide something tu baik ke tak ke. mmg laa orang kata kita dah besar, boleh tahu, tp i rasa mcm tak tahu jugak. tade ke mcm benchmark untuk benda ni? hahahaa"

senang kan ? siapa boleh jawab, sila jawab dekat commentbox nant yee. boleh share share story :))

ofcourse mestilah kena fikir benda tu betul ke tak, ikut syariat islam, sunnah Rasulullah. tp pernah tak kadang-kadang kat tengah-tengah mall ni, tengah nak beli barang ke, nak peg buat apa2laa, mcm fikir, boleh ke tak boleh eh? so as for the so called benchmark, i would say i put myparents as the benchmark. hehee. lgpun i always thought that "Allah sayang orang yg buat ibubapa dia gembira". so since manusia ni sifatnya lg suka tgk hasil depan mata, in this case, ibubapa yg gembira, so use that to achieve the Higher level *okay kalau tak faham,abaikan. ni teori diri sendiri;p*

how do i use my parent as benchmark ? its simple, really is.
tiap kali nak buat apa apa, mesti fikir
"kalau buat ni depan bapak/mak, diorang marah tak agak2?"
"kalau pakai mcm ni depan mak/bapak, diorg bagi ke tak?"
"kalau ckp macam ni depan mak/bapak, diorang marah tak?"
"segan tak kalau mak/bapak nampak benda ni?"
lepastu fikir balik,
"kalau mak/bapak pun marah, mestilah Allah pun marah."
"kalau mak/bapak bg pun, is it really okay?"

its one of the reason why i didnt agree with people that didnt approve their family on fb, twitter etc. its their choice of course, but i would always thought that, why would u hide anything from ur family ? if you are not doing anything wrong, why should u be afraid that they might see it ? if u did do something bad and afraid they know it, takkan tak takut Allah tahu ? there's this one quote saying :

if you dont want others to know it, then dont do it in the first place :))

yeee, saya memang banyak buat sesi soal jawab dengan diri sendiri dalam kepala ni. ehehee. its not really a good thing though, i know, sebab lg bagus kalau tanya kat orang lg pandai/tahu bab2 ni kan ? so, jangan tiru ye ? i tried to change, now lagi banyak tnya orang jugak. huhuuu..

haaa one more thing, this is one of the reasons i would take a looooooong time to make a decision. either buying clothes, things, going somewhere etc. my friend would see me holding one thing and look really excited to buy it, but the next minute i would put it back saying "tapelaa, tgk benda lain dulu" padahal nak fikir2 dulu. hahaaa *okay kantoi* ;p.. okay, thats me. how about you ? yes you, the one reading this [if any] hahahaa :p

p/s: wrote this @ 2.55am. sorry ayat yang berterabur, i seriously dont like to recheck my grammar/spelling/susunan ayat. ehehee ;p